#179 [EN] Steven Braekeveldt - An artist CEO's guide to business, creativity and life

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José Maria Pimentel 00:00:46.94Olá, o meu nome é José Maria Pimentel. 00:00:46.94Sejam muito bem-vindos ao 45 Graus. 00:00:50.84Como sempre, agradeço aos novos mecenas do podcast, a Mafalda, o Pedro Gonçalves, o Zé Sá, a Sónia Antunes, a Filomena Oliveira, o José Carlos Silva e, last but not the least, Manuel Cunha Silva. 00:00:50.84Muito obrigado a todos. 00:01:05.10E agora, como este é o episódio com um convidado estrangeiro, vamos mudar para inglês. 00:01:05.10Até já. 00:01:09.92This episode's guest is Steven Brackevelt, who served until November last year as the CEO of the Portuguese subsidiary of AGEAS, a multinational insurance group, as well as CEO of Continental Europe AGEAS. 00:01:23.66He has a quite impressive career, with degrees in law and economics, a teaching background, and decades of leadership roles across continents, from Hong Kong to Mexico, Singapore, Belgium, and, lastly, Portugal. 00:01:35.26But what makes Steven a great guest for 45 Graus is much more than his professional achievements, his curious and passionate approach to life, both professional and personal. 00:01:46.54Despite a demanding career, Steven is a lifelong learner, a traveler, an art lover, and someone who reads, to my great envy, 60 to 90 books a year. 00:01:56.58And he is also a published novelist. 00:01:56.58His first book was released in Portugal under the name O Homem que se Faz Esquecer. 00:02:03.54Steven's curiosity and rich life experience give him, as you will see, a unique perspective on almost any topic, ranging from the classics leadership and organizational culture, sustainability, finding one's purpose in life, and even time management and practical tips on the correct way to manage our email inbox. 00:02:23.08And this is just a sample of what we discussed in this great conversation with Steven Brackevelt. 00:02:23.08Let's go. 00:02:33.54Steven, welcome to 45 Graus. 00:02:37.24Welcome of having me. 00:02:38.56I don't do episodes in English that much. 00:02:38.56And one reason is because whenever I publish an episode in English, I lose about one third of my audience. 00:02:48.24Meaning like I have fewer people listening to the episode then, but I do some exceptions. 00:02:53.10And in this case, it's worth it because, as I was telling you, many people along the past years suggested me that I invite you to the podcast or that I at least meet you and say, oh, you should really invite this guy on. 00:03:05.76Which I found strange because I never, to be honest, like the first time, of course, I never heard your name before. 00:03:11.18You were until very recently the CEO of an insurance company, which is not the sexiest sector. 00:03:16.64So I was surprised. 00:03:16.64But then I thought I should do it. 00:03:18.96And then I read about your path and it made sense. 00:03:22.10So I guess we should start about your coming to Portugal. 00:03:24.56So what, throughout your career, you had, you're born in Belgium, but you had an experience all over the world, Singapore, Hong Kong, Mexico, and then you ended up here. 00:03:32.54Like, I'll do that very briefly. 00:03:34.20How did that happen?
Steven Braekeveldt 00:10:41.86And when I tell people that my grandfather told me that his grandfather died in the last hunger epitome in Belgium in 1845, I might be able to tell that to my grandchildren who might tell that to their grandchildren. 00:10:58.38So we have a span of 350-400 years. 00:11:01.18Just by my grandfather and me telling this sustainability place in 100 years. 00:11:07.54And what people do not realize is that today the people in power, because we're talking about today the people in power, should realize that they will love somebody who will love somebody who might die. 00:11:20.28Because of us not taking up this seriously. 00:11:22.94And I'm just telling the grandchildren's grandchildren. 00:11:26.42That's all. 00:11:27.20That's 100 years. 00:11:28.44So it's not so far. 00:11:30.00It's not so far. 00:11:30.88But we should not only do it for the grandchildren's grandchildren. 00:11:33.42We should first do it for us, our children, and every living being. 00:11:38.32Do I see urgency? 00:11:39.48Not at all. 00:11:40.54And this has to do with the second thing. 00:11:42.12So the first thing is timing. 00:11:43.88The second point is the rat in the wheel. 00:11:47.44Nothing is more easy for people to continue to do what they always have been doing. 00:11:51.70The rat in the wheel. 00:11:53.02It's difficult to stop the wheel. 00:11:54.82And so companies are focused on analyst reports, investors. 00:11:58.74Every three months we meet. 00:12:00.10What is the dividend growth? 00:12:01.38What is the return on target capital? 00:12:03.58These are terms that we're very comfortable with. 00:12:07.10And so nothing more easier than every three weeks meeting people and say, you know, we hit our targets. 00:12:11.86We hit our KPIs. 00:12:13.64Yes, the planet is okay, but the planet, I mean, who cares? 00:12:16.56I mean, more plastic in the sea or acidification of the ocean, of the nitrification of the ocean, of the fact that the 40 centimeters of soil of which the whole humankind is living off is being destroyed. 00:12:28.66Who cares about that? 00:12:29.72I mean, nobody. 00:12:30.44Nobody of the analysts are asking me what you're going to do about the soil or what you're doing about the microplastics and all the fish. 00:12:36.64So I don't care.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:14:20.86If I would compare cultures, I mean, every culture is beautiful. 00:14:24.16Honestly, let's start with that, right? 00:14:25.86I mean, I love to live in every country and every country has its positives and its negatives. 00:14:30.56I mean, when I lived in Singapore and Hong Kong, for the hundred thousands of operations we did a month, if there were two mistakes, it was a lot. 00:14:39.82And I had to kind of put a serious face because they came with a whole file indicating that it was loss of face for the department, for the manager, for the employee. 00:14:50.18And they were going to put it in its personal file. 00:14:52.70When I lived in Mexico, if we had two good operations out of 100,000, that was success. 00:14:58.52Ah, what's all? 00:14:59.50Okay, let's do it again. 00:15:00.64Okay, then you have 50,000. 00:15:01.96Ah, let's do it again. 00:15:03.34I would say there's no proud of doing things correctly from the first time. 00:15:06.82It's a, yeah, it was like, okay, I mean, we're going to do it again. 00:15:10.74Okay, Portugal is not Singapore or Asia, but it's not Mexico either. 00:15:16.12But there is a kind of what you're saying, a lack of long-term planning. 00:15:21.46For example, my meetings are always planned within the next 12 months. 00:15:25.64And I know that my colleagues were always saying, but how can you plan? 00:15:29.30I mean, we never plan more than two weeks meetings. 00:15:32.08I said, no, no, no. 00:15:33.18All my meetings are planned for 12 months ahead. 00:15:35.90So nobody can say they didn't know. 00:15:37.90It's in your agendas, it's strict, I don't surprise anybody. 00:15:42.40I am not like other Portuguese CEOs saying, oh, I want to have a meeting. 00:15:47.52Come over, come up. 00:15:48.70Yeah, but I have a meeting. 00:15:49.46No, no, no. 00:15:49.92Change your agenda, yeah. 00:15:51.12I need it. 00:15:51.90And so they have to start making a chaos because their meetings have to be replanned, all the other meetings are planned. 00:15:57.22No, you don't do that. 00:15:58.54When I asked for meetings, I first said, you have to look in your schedule if we can have a meeting. 00:16:03.56I'm not imposing. 00:16:04.64So it's about respect of the time of the others. 00:16:07.90And also being ready that, okay, I would like to have a meeting. 00:16:11.26Let's plan. 00:16:11.72I will plan that three weeks ahead. 00:16:13.74So that that's all okay. 00:16:15.18So that people can plan comfortably in order and that you don't upset agendas of nothing. 00:16:21.48So that's very structured, disciplined way of working. 00:16:24.88This is something where I had many problems or I saw many problems in Portugal.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:16:50.60I was going to say, it is more to do with a very old-fashioned hierarchical structure that the CEO is all-powerful and his will is law and everybody should listen to what the CEO is saying while I have a complete different opinion. 00:17:07.22The CEO for me is a conductor and the ones who are playing is the people who have the orchestra is the exec committee, the senior management, the management, all the people. 00:17:19.16The CEO is the chief ability, the guy who makes the things work, who makes it possible that things work and nothing else. 00:17:28.10He's not an executive. 00:17:29.92I never saw a chief executive officer. 00:17:32.92I mean, they don't execute, right? 00:17:35.38It's somebody who makes it... 00:17:36.74I always said I'm the chief emotional officer. 00:17:39.10the people who make things work, who plan. 00:17:42.74And then the composition, that's the strategy. 00:17:45.34So the composition, what everybody's playing, that's the strategy. 00:17:48.48And it's up to the CEO to make sure that the strategy is well put in place amongst all players of the orchestra. 00:17:56.62I think the Portuguese way of looking upon things is more of I have to say I am the authority and I'm the person saying things. 00:18:05.82I'm the one who knows. 00:18:06.92In a lot of cases, yes. 00:18:08.54I always have tried always the kind of Hegel, thesis, antithesis, synthesis, right? 00:18:14.46You put something, you listen to what everybody has to say and you come to a better decision by listening to all the arguments and you come to the synthesis, which makes that also
José Maria Pimentel 00:19:56.86Yeah, it's in a sense a bit the urgent versus important dichotomy again. 00:20:01.86Let me go back to the hierarchy discussion. 00:20:05.34Whenever you have a common diagnosis, but things still don't change, it means that there's a deeper cause that's preventing it from change. 00:20:12.06And this is why I'm interested in your perspective, because you came from the outside. 00:20:15.62Whenever I speak to people in management positions about that, and they say, oh, you should delegate more. 00:20:20.14Or you should, you know, have that profile you just described. 00:20:22.90What they'll tell me is that, yeah, ideally I should, but I can trust people under me. 00:20:27.30Like, they don't have the right knowledge. 00:20:28.96If I'm not there seeing, or if I'm not intervening, they won't do it. 00:20:33.34And sometimes these people might be right to the sense that we still have a very, in some parts, an unskilled labor force. 00:20:40.30So people might not have university degrees, or they might have, but they don't have the right experience. 00:20:43.80So in some cases, it's very hard for me to persuade people that are having this conversation against that. 00:20:49.42Because last time I did that, and then they just ruined the decision. 00:20:52.88So if I take my hand out of the leash, as it were, it doesn't work. 00:20:55.94But with you, apparently it works. 00:20:58.06So it means that this is wrong. 00:20:59.74Well, I always had a kind of term of garbage manager in front of me.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:21:03.76You know, the ones, you probably know the one who takes the monkey on the shoulder. 00:21:07.64It's a type of manager who does not trust his people, and therefore wants to be involved in everything and takes everything on his shoulder. 00:21:14.88So every time there's a problem, he says, problem is the monkey, put it on my shoulder. 00:21:19.02And so in the end, he gets shoulders full of monkeys, which is, if there's garbage, give it to me. 00:21:23.30I will solve it because I know, which is completely wrong, of course. 00:21:26.96Because what happens is that you create stress all over the company. 00:21:30.42Because he has a monkey, he will not keep his monkeys on his shoulders. 00:21:33.74He will put the monkey somewhere else on another one's shoulder. 00:21:36.52But they're not paid to do that. 00:21:38.92So as they're not paid to do that, but yeah, I mean, the hierarchy is saying to do it. 00:21:43.50So everybody gets overweighted with what they have to do. 00:21:47.22I believe that a CEO, somebody at a high level, only has one task. 00:21:52.48It's to squeeze the person like a lemon in potential. 00:21:57.12I believe the task from everybody is to elevate people in their potential. 00:22:01.66Sometimes people do not want, and you have to respect that. 00:22:05.00People say, I have imbalance, I have little children I don't want, it's not my timing yet. 00:22:09.40Fine, no problem. 00:22:10.78But it's detecting the potential in people. 00:22:13.50If, like you say, this person is surrounded by unskilled persons, number one, he should try to elevate them. 00:22:20.66If that is not possible, he has to remove them. 00:22:23.10Change the people or change the people. 00:22:25.34That's a slogan which is very, change the people or change the people. 00:22:30.34Because you cannot continue to work with people who do not have potential. 00:22:34.72For example, myself, I know I'm a very chaotic person. 00:22:37.70I'm an artistic person. 00:22:40.10I'm probably more a poet than, let's say, a pure numerical guy while I was 10 years a trader. 00:22:46.82So, I only had figures. 00:22:48.06I have dealt with figures for years, years, years. 00:22:50.36But in the end, I have a more artistic mind. 00:22:53.78So, I know I have to surround me with people who are extremely structured and very disciplined. 00:22:58.94And everybody knows that. 00:23:00.42I never keep my emails. 00:23:01.72I delete all my mails. 00:23:02.84Can you imagine? 00:23:03.80Because I know myself. 00:23:05.88I mean, my assistant, she is always laughing at me. 00:23:08.48I never find an email back. 00:23:09.66Never, never, never. 00:23:10.80But if I need something, I tell her, you know, four years ago, that guy sent me a mail once. 00:23:16.54Can you find that back? 00:23:17.98She finds it back. 00:23:19.48So, the person, you have to surround yourself with people of which you definitely don't have the talents. 00:23:25.16Where they're complementary to you. 00:23:27.18And I'm sorry to say so, but if there's no trust, come on. 00:23:32.08That's the basic. 00:23:33.52Yeah, it's a trust issue. 00:23:34.36The ABC of having teams is having trust. 00:23:38.90Everywhere where I arrived, I always worked with the people who were in the company. 00:23:43.08Unless I saw they were not skilled. 00:23:45.16Even if I tried, I tried second chances, et cetera, et cetera. 00:23:48.64But you roll with the reams with what you have.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:24:36.84But that's actually the culture that, when I arrived, we changed a lot. 00:24:41.60I always spoke half an hour with all the newcomers in the company. 00:24:44.74That's a lot of time, I can tell you. 00:24:46.66But people is the only thing we have in a company. 00:24:50.34I mean, walls, computers, phones, that's all replaceable. 00:24:54.58But your culture in a company is made by people. 00:24:58.78And so, every newcomer had half an hour with me, not to talk about business, but what makes your heart tick? 00:25:04.90What makes you passionate? 00:25:06.56And mostly, I always asked, what's your purpose on earth? 00:25:09.72Why are you on earth? 00:25:11.54Why? 00:25:12.34And that's important, I believe, because if my purpose would be to save the frocks in Sierra de Estrella, for example, imagine that this is my purpose. 00:25:21.50I want to save the frocks in Sierra de Estrella, and I'm going to work for a G as an insurance company. 00:25:26.38Sooner or later, I will have a problem, because my personal purpose in life, I mean, it's very far away of what I spend 10 hours or 8 hours a day in. 00:25:37.30So, somehow, why I ask this every time to all the people, because to be sure that purpose, why are you on earth? 00:25:45.46I mean, you know that there are two important moments in life, the moment you're born, and the moment you know why you're born. 00:25:52.26That's purpose. 00:25:53.56And so, if you can work in a company that one way or another is kind of fulfilling your purpose, that's a much easier place to work in. 00:26:03.92And that's why I tell people, if you don't like the strategy, move on. 00:26:08.14Move on. 00:26:09.22This was something new in the company when I told that. 00:26:11.62When I told people, if you don't feel comfortable with our strategy, move on. 00:26:15.66Life is too short. 00:26:16.86You have to have fun in life. 00:26:18.80There will be some other companies where you have fun. 00:26:20.68Have fun in life.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:29:17.42I mean, I'm sure that if I listen to your cousin, that he is well-read, that he knows what... 00:29:23.38That being interested in so many things is important for the brain, for mental health, for everything. 00:29:30.42And also, it is what gives you pleasure. 00:29:33.68I mean, nobody is going to thank you because you worked 35 years in a company or something. 00:29:37.72I mean, you have your salary, you were paid for it, and it's not where you should have your sole pleasure from. 00:29:44.42There's so many other things in life that people should be doing. 00:29:47.94That's, for example, why when I arrived here in Portugal, it was still... 00:29:51.94I mean, the company, they were still doing paintball, bowling for team... 00:29:55.36Team building. 00:29:56.20And I said, no way, this is going to stop. 00:29:59.38Every team building must have a social impact. 00:30:02.42And so, what we do see, after so many years having that, so we are helping nursing homes, all kinds of things that we are helping society with organizations who have no money. 00:30:13.70But what we do see is that the percentage of people, of our employees, who are now active in helping NGOs, has increased percentage. 00:30:22.92Because for many people, it's not easy to talk or to make that step to meet poor people. 00:30:29.22They're afraid this step is difficult to... 00:30:31.36Of course. 00:30:31.90It's difficult to meet poor people if you want to meet poor... 00:30:34.72Of course, you can do, but it's not easy. 00:30:36.62No, no, absolutely.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:31:46.32The week before I left, the people who reported to me, we went in painting a boxing area in the poorest quarter of Lisbon. 00:31:55.28For 30 years, nobody touched it. 00:31:57.94It was dirty, dusty, black, everything. 00:32:01.94We put it anew. 00:32:03.58I mean, you know how much pleasure we had by painting all together. 00:32:07.44We're doing these things. 00:32:08.74So you can have a lot of fun and still have being consequential for society. 00:32:14.24It's just a mindset. 00:32:15.64You know, the mindset is everything. 00:32:17.22It lets me think to when COVID started, I had two options. 00:32:21.34So there were no cars on the road. 00:32:22.82So there were no accidents. 00:32:24.40So we could have said, okay, we're going to lay off all these people temporarily because the law foresaw it. 00:32:29.72But we changed our company into a textile company. 00:32:32.78You're saying a boring company? 00:32:34.66So I called the chairwoman of the hotel association. 00:32:37.62I said, do you have sheets too much in your hotels? 00:32:40.16I said, yeah, I can look for it. 00:32:41.66Okay, I said, if you have, let the hotels deliver the sheets to Aegeus. 00:32:45.48Then I called the CEO of a sewing company. 00:32:48.90I said, would you be willing to sell your sewing machines at cost? 00:32:52.96For this purpose to make mouth masks. 00:32:55.90And he said, ah, yes. 00:32:57.22Because nobody had mouth masks, depending on the nursing homes. 00:33:01.62Nobody had mouth masks. 00:33:03.44And so we had the teams of our Aegeus Repara, who is doing the leakage detection. 00:33:09.36I mean, they could not go to the home, so they didn't have work either. 00:33:12.20And they were working in our garages to make packages to our employees.
José Maria Pimentel 00:35:53.24I mean, I listen to some, not enough, because there's a lot of knowledge out there and very good speakers. 00:35:59.10And I should discipline me more to listen, more to podcasts, because they're very good ones. 00:36:04.08And it's something that you can do in some situations in which you're not able to read, like, I don't know, walking and whatnot. 00:36:10.42I have a very similar approach to these type of situations. 00:36:14.12For instance, when I'm in traffic, this, again, applies to podcasts, not to books specifically. 00:36:18.36But, you know, when you're stuck in traffic, if I'm listening to a podcast, I don't really care so much, unless I really need to be, I don't know, I need to pick my daughters from school. 00:36:25.92Then, of course, it's not good. 00:36:27.56But otherwise, I don't really care too much. 00:36:30.04So I have that approach. 00:36:30.84But there's one challenge I find myself, and I would imagine you find it even more, which has not to do with time per se. 00:36:38.08But I'm not sure what's the right expression in English for this. 00:36:41.12But I would say in Portuguese, mental space. 00:36:43.70So let's say you have a demanding job, which means that you not only have to do, but you have to think and to plan ahead and to strategize and reflect and decide. 00:36:52.68And that means that when you stop, when you have time, your brain will start automatically thinking about those important things that you have to decide on. 00:37:01.22And so even if you start reading a book, you know that effect. 00:37:04.04Like you start on the first page and then a half page through, your mind just wanders to something else because you have important stuff on your mind. 00:37:10.48And that's what I'm really curious about. 00:37:11.92How can you manage that? 00:37:13.04How can you stave off that?
Steven Braekeveldt 00:39:22.60I'm sort of jealous. 00:39:23.72I started off as a pure left brain guy. 00:39:26.62I mean, 10 years training, it's only numbers. 00:39:29.00And then being in Hong Kong, Singapore, as a CEO of a bank. 00:39:32.48So, I mean, it's only figures, numbers, numbers, numbers. 00:39:35.16So somehow my left brain has been trained a lot. 00:39:39.16But at the same time, I was a huge reader, writer. 00:39:43.34I have been singing on stage and still love to sing. 00:39:46.86This evening, I'm going to have dinner with a singer, a Belgian singer. 00:39:50.40And I told him, when can we sing again together on stage once? 00:39:53.70Because I love to sing on stage. 00:39:55.84And so let's see what we can do. 00:39:57.46And so I have always had this kind of tendency also for artistic things, which is the right brain. 00:40:03.30When I arrived here in Singapore, we started with the G as the Singularity University. 00:40:08.30We brought Singularity University here with Beta E, with Cascades, Community of Cascades. 00:40:14.18And that's the left brain concentration, purely of technology. 00:40:17.88And then we partnered with the House of Beautiful Business. 00:40:21.06Why? 00:40:21.88Because Singularity University is great. 00:40:24.60It gives you a view where technology, where the world is going, from a more engineering side. 00:40:30.46But it doesn't give you satisfaction of why we're doing things and how we're doing things. 00:40:35.66And so we partnered with the House of Beautiful Business, because it is more concentrated on the right brain and how are human interactions, what do you do, how you organize it. 00:40:47.60And so it's always this kind of balance between both brains, which is very important.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:43:19.62And I'm telling them, you should go to heavy metal concerts. 00:43:22.86And then they're all looking like me, like, oh, this guy is not very good in the head. 00:43:27.94And I'm saying, yeah, you should go to heavy metal concerts. 00:43:30.52You should go to ballet. 00:43:32.18You should go to classical music. 00:43:34.06You should go to musea. 00:43:36.38Look at contemporary art, but also art from the Middle Ages. 00:43:40.80You should read about astrology, anthropology. 00:43:44.56You should read history. 00:43:46.02You should know why bees are flying the way they fly. 00:43:48.74You should know why ants are walking on a line. 00:43:51.38You should read about everything and do everything. 00:43:55.86And I'm telling them, why do I say that to have a career? 00:43:59.48Because now I'm, of course, at the end of my career. 00:44:03.40It's when I meet or I have M&A deals to do, merchant acquisitions with other CEOs, we talk 20 minutes about the topic. 00:44:11.94No more. 00:44:13.10You go straight into the topics and you discuss it. 00:44:15.98And for one hour and a half, you try to connect with the person. 00:44:19.80What makes him tick? 00:44:21.14What is interesting to him? 00:44:22.76So that you can feel that there's a connection. 00:44:25.60Because in the end, what you want is that when you call, he picks up the phone or she picks up the phone. 00:44:30.66That's it. 00:44:30.94Oh, this guy was an interesting guy or I had a good connection with the guy. 00:44:35.62He's trustworthy. 00:44:36.92He is transparent. 00:44:38.42He knows what he wants. 00:44:40.00He's very open. 00:44:41.66So that's it. 00:44:42.30That's what you're looking for is that pick up the phone. 00:44:45.74And for that, if you have somebody in front of you who is a huge collector of little teaspoons, well, you must be able to talk about collecting teaspoons or whatever. 00:44:54.62And you need a knowledge which is extremely broad from, you might have a CEO who is very interested in heavy metal, somebody else in ballet, somebody else in ants or bees or whatever.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:54:11.30Well, you know, people are quite far away from earth, from nature. 00:54:16.40And I should go back. 00:54:17.52Why did the Romans send sheep to build their hair ways, right? 00:54:24.26The roads they built. 00:54:25.64So they always sent herds of sheep ahead. 00:54:28.68Why did they do that? 00:54:29.78Because sheep eat a certain kind of plants. 00:54:33.30They prefer certain plants which are growing on rocky underground, where actually the radiation is the furthest away. 00:54:42.54So you know that the earth gives a kind of radiation every two meters, three meters. 00:54:48.82And so these sheep, they walk and then they put this, when two or three kinds of herds come by, and they all go the same way. 00:54:56.18That's where they put the sticks so that they are on a rocky underground. 00:54:59.92When you go to a garden and you see kind of dens at the garden, you will always see that there is one low den and then three or four same. 00:55:10.64A low one, look at it, standing on one of the radiations, okay? 00:55:16.60So there's many things that you can see, which people don't see anymore. 00:55:20.94When in the old days, I don't know if it was the same in Portugal, but in Belgium, when there was a new farmhouse, they let the dog sleep for three days alone in the farmhouse. 00:55:31.28And the dog would normally always going to sleep in the same place. 00:55:36.04That was the bedroom. 00:55:37.42Because the dogs feel automatically where you would sleep best. 00:55:41.66So then that became the bedroom. 00:55:43.62How many parents don't, or saying, or you meet, that they're saying, you know what's strange? 00:55:48.44I put my baby always like this in bed, and in the morning, it's completely reversed, or it is always diagonally in the bed. 00:55:57.72Children, small babies, they feel this. 00:56:00.28They move away from radiations. 00:56:02.58They sleep in, they move away while they sleep to a place where they can release energy instead of getting energy. 00:56:11.20But that's all lost, okay? 00:56:13.36And so, in those days, when we had people who asked me to go, of, for example, babies peeing in bed, it's mostly what you found out. 00:56:22.84It can be sick diseases and sickness, I'm not excluding that. 00:56:25.90But in a lot of cases, it was because the bed was standing, because the bedrooms are made now in apartments, you cannot choose.
Steven Braekeveldt 00:57:30.26Well, it's a book I still recommend. 00:57:32.14I have read it like six or seven times. 00:57:34.30And once in a while, I read it over. 00:57:36.12It's a book which is completely forgotten now. 00:57:38.16It's from Martin Gray. 00:57:39.68Martin Gray. 00:57:41.02Au nom de tous les miens. 00:57:42.16I read it in English, but for those I loved in English. 00:57:46.86And Martin Gray is a little boy who is living in Poland, in Warszawie. 00:57:54.58And then, of course, you have the Second World War. 00:57:56.34He's Jewish and he is caught. 00:57:59.64And so, they have to move into the ghetto. 00:58:01.84And he is full of energy. 00:58:03.72And he puts up whole gangs to smuggle bread into the ghetto and make money, etc. 00:58:10.34I mean, there's all these kind of things. 00:58:13.04Yeah, he loses, of course, all his family is killed. 00:58:15.74And then, he escapes from the ghetto. 00:58:18.28And he becomes part of the Russian, the Partizanen, who are going against the Germans. 00:58:23.22Then he, for two years after the Second World War. 00:58:26.08But you should read that part, it's quite impacting as well. 00:58:29.32His times at the ghetto. 00:58:31.00And then, he's moved to the concentration camp. 00:58:33.00He escapes concentration camp. 00:58:35.10And then, he's with the Partizanen to chase the Nazis or to discover them. 00:58:41.64And then, he moves to New York, where a great aunt is living. 00:58:44.68And he works like hell. 00:58:45.84I mean, he feels like, I lost all that time. 00:58:48.80And he works, works, works. 00:58:50.36Work is the only thing to not remember all the atrocities. 00:58:54.98He works like hell. 00:58:56.44To forget that he lost his brothers, sisters, parents, uncles. 00:59:00.68He works. 00:59:01.64He becomes rich. 00:59:02.76And then, he finds his spouse. 00:59:06.88They have three or four children. 00:59:08.54That I don't know anymore. 00:59:11.04But, at a certain moment, he stops working, buys a big house in France, the south of France. 00:59:16.82And then, while he's traveling, there's a house with his wife and four children are dead. 00:59:23.18And, his first reaction is, I have to have children. 00:59:30.50Because, it's important to live on. 00:59:33.46that they know about it, that they know about it, that they, what I want to say is, this is a guy, you read that book, the guy went through so much. 00:59:40.24And his end, even when he's older, his first thing, this lust of life. 00:59:46.38I have to live, I have to live, I have to continue to live through my children, they have to know what my parents were like, because, otherwise, I have nobody to tell. 00:59:57.16And still today, I give this book from time to time to people who are, have a burnout, who are in depression. 01:00:03.56And I'm telling them, if they can read it, because, in a lot of cases, they cannot concentrate that much, but if they can read it, I give that, because it puts the kind of problems they have, versus the problems in perspective, it puts these problems in perspective. 01:00:20.92And it shows that hunger for life, that animal that is so eager to live, to discover, to experience, to do different things, incredible. 01:00:32.56But the book is forgotten, it's already a long time out of any list, but it's a book I read very early on, it had impact in my life. 01:00:42.02But from a literary point of view, it's rubbish, yeah? 01:00:45.48This will never win, the Nobel Prize, this will never win. 01:00:48.40Well, probably not rubbish, but... 01:00:49.62No, but from a literary point of view, that's not... 01:00:52.22I understand, yeah.